Gave it some careful thots

I have been thinking a lot recently…
Lost in my thots and had 开窍aft some serious thinking

Frens can say they r ur true frens or whatever shit but
The fact is to take advantage of u

An old saying “Hokkien lang tua pian, teh jiu lang hao lian, k chu lang K LANG, etc…” (in hokkien).

I duno y but I find this saying quite true.
“K chu lang” r “known” to be real n super 厉害in taking advantages of other ppl, even frens.
In my opinion, I tink K chu lang which means “ke jia ren” has the “nastiest” trait, in e above saying. It is so scary to find any of ur K chu lang frens to act as hw nice in front of u, bt r act using n taking advantage of you or e others. Im nt saying tis saying is 100% TRUE, but for e past few generations, this was a saying passed down from the older generations. I bet there is some TRUTH to it.

N I had discovered 1 thing. Hokkien lang clashes w K chu lang. For instance, 1 of my K chu lang frens (act I have v few frens hu r K chu lang lah), n it seems tt we may luk to be gt v well, bt I knw tts nt e truth, some feeling tt cant be described. Its lk there’s a “devil” inside u telling u tt tis person cant be trusted esp sometimes things happening ard u makes u double sure tt tis devil talks make more sense than u had imagined it to be. So the MAIN pt is “I wont get too well for v long wif K chu lang de.”

N c, when im in lower sec, I have tis K chu fren hu WAS v close w mi, but an incident wif regards to a certain conflict worsens e situation n brought strain to e frenship. Guess wad, fr close “sistas” to lk a total stranger instead of even fren alr. I believed there’s a so-called curse n jinx btw Hokkien n K chu lang dialect families. Haha… Tt sounds superstitious bt I fil tt it act sounds quite true.
Esp if u have a K chu lang fren hu 对不起u in one sense or another, mb for e.g, 害u juz to gain advantage, u’ll find it making sense to what I had said, so e thing is, u wont realize e truth of it, unless u EXPERIENCED it.

I oso don lk ppl to command or in a commanding tone to ask ppl to do stuffs esp he/she is SO free to be able to complete the task. So I have nv command ppl to do tis do tt in my whole entire 17 yrs of life. I don lk ppl to command mi n I don lk to command ppl, cos I can understand e BAD feeling of being commanded. Cant imagine how stupid can a person gets when he/she cant even differentiate fr “LEADING” (teaching in another sense) and “COMMANDING”.
If u r paid or rewarded e same as ur fren, I don tink ur fren has e right to ask u to do things for her. Even if not for her, but completing e task is not u wish to 偷懒den u’ll ask others to do it for u de mah. Wad sort of fren is tis? Don say him/her as fren, cos they 连”猪狗”都不如! Dogs r loyal to u when u r its owner, but fren commanding fren is lk, u r treating him/her as ur dog… As if u r nt a dog urself, when u r treating others as dog.

Its e WORST when u have got frens hu r so disliked by many n he/she don even 反省or检讨. If 1 or only few persons don lk u, still can understand mah. But if u r disliked by so many ppl, shld 反省 y so many ppl don lk u mah, mb its e attitude tt is e root of e prob?
(Not referring to my poly frens) I have gt a fren, whom many disliked, n ppl has been saying “attention seeker” behind e back. I don tink tt person has ever realized tt y so many ppl disliked “…”, but isn’t it obvious e prob lies w “…”?? But I guess tt person feels tt ppl disliking “…” r e ones hu r in fault. So ya, 死到临头还不悔改, I duno isit 1 wait until don have any frens le den will realize act 问题lies w ownself.

I rather have frens who’ll 一拍两散 w mi, rather than keeping tis kind of fren to be bullied by.
So I finally comprehend, y ppl have been saying, jus a few true frens is enuf, don nid to have so many frens de la.
WH 表姐, u r right! The fren who claims to be ur best fren or sistas, maybe the 1 hu will 害你最重, 伤你最深的人, I will bear tt in mind aft hearing what u told me de those things happened fr e letter u sent to mi.
Thank you 
送你们golden words :防人之心不可无”